Joys and Sorrows
Sunday, November 17
From Katie Goslin: Joy because we got to celebrate Sawyer snd Miles yesterday for their 4th and 6th birthdays. Miles is officially four as of yesterday and Sawyer will be six on the 29th.
From Autumn Haskins: Grateful for my grandma and friends who threw me a lovely baby shower yesterday! And for all of the people who showed up to celebrate! Although, I may need two to three days to recover from all of that.
From Sam Beshers: For a joyous and uplifting performance of “Mama Mia” at the Urbana High School last night. The kids are all right.
From Li Booker: My name is Li, me and my partner Moriah have been looking for a church home and we are glad we found one with you guys. Continue to be great and God bless you all!
From Marilyn Ryan: I’m very concerned for my brother John who has been struggling with his health for a couple months. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers.
From Theo Schoeplein-Leff: I get to lead the service with Sally.
From Christine Cahill: Please send positive thoughts to my husband Michael as he has his first infusion tomorrow. We hope it will heal his colon.
From Jerry Carden and Tim Temple: Remembering those transgender persons who lost their life in the past year. There is a Transgender Day Of remembrance service here on Wednesday the 20th.
From Alice Smith: A sorrow for my friend, Willow whose health problems sent her to the ER last week. She is home safe now and surrounded by friends and partners. Keep her in your heart.
Sunday, November 10
From Pat McClard: Happy 17th birthday to my son Keith!
From Brittney Shipley: Today is the anniversary of the loss of our matriarch, my grandmother, Diane. She has been gone for 6 years but her spirit and love will never be forgotten.
From Sam Beshers: For all those Americans who this week have chosen courage and determination.
From Jim Hannum: Dirk Mol, a friend of many of us in this church, died this week. Please keep him and his husband, Jerry, in your thoughts.
From Kate McDowell: Blessings for my lifelong family friend Paul Hargrave, who married his love Doris in front of this very organ at Channing Murray years ago. He learned this week that he has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. Blessings to their children and grandchild.
From Kelly Skinner: Gratitude for being in a safe pod the last few days with my fellow religious educators from central IL learning, resting, and supporting one another.
From Christine Hatfield: Feeling sorrow for the uncertain future that lies ahead for my trans siblings here in Champaign-Urbana, in Illinois and around the country. But I also feel joy for the community we share, for the multitudes we contain. And I take solace that despite everything, we will persevere through together, and somehow, we will light the path toward a better future.
From Karla Peterson: Thank you and love to this amazing congregation of people who care.
From Lori Miller: Sorrow: All of our family got hit by a respiratory illness, two of us got pneumonia, and we are still recovering. Joy: We’re glad to have these services online to feel less alone
From Beth Simpson: Dirk Mol died on Thursday. He was a gem, dynamo. He was super smart. I will miss him. I love him. Be blessed.
From Jerry Carden and Tim Temple: Our friend Dirk Mol. joined the universe of stars on Thursday. His suffering is over. Please keep his husband Jerry in your thoughts. Many of, you know, them, Jerry would appreciate notes with your memories of Dirk
From David Wolff: A joy that last night four friends all played charades, laughed a lot. My house was filled with community and light.
From Maureen: My long coveted symptoms are much improved after several crummy weeks.
From Alice Smith: A joy that so many friends, family and comrades reached out ready to pick up our struggle and to say “no pasaran” – they will go no further.
From Natalie: A joy for all the Habitat for Humanity volunteers who help to build a safe and beautiful home for a local mom in her young child.
From Claire Douglas: A sorrow for my dear friend Charles who is in the hospital struggling for his life.
From Ayla: A joy to spend time in my heart home for the first time with my beloved brother, Angus.
Sorrow for sexist violence against my sister this week. Sorrow for all who are unsafe and for all lives that will be lost.
From Anonymous: Sometimes a person is so lost in their own pain that they don’t realize when their words or actions hurt someone else. May we remember that we’ve all been on both sides of that and have compassion and patience for everyone we encounter ss they may be going through something painful.
From Laura Wheaton: My dad’s 88th birthday was November 2nd. Please wish him well in his journey with Parkinson’s.
Sunday, November 3
From Alicia Buskirk: Duncan and Alicia are currently in Boston, where Duncan’s father Adam has been sedated after a massive heart attack Friday. Adam is a proud UU from Cape Cod who lovingly refers to Unitarian Universalism as “the disorganized religion.”
From Brittney Shipley: Grateful for the beauty and symbolism that is Autumn.
From Jerry Frye: Filled with joy and happiness for 23 years with my wife Today is our anniversary. .
From Katie Goslin: A year ago we were knee deep in survival mode, caring for two month old Violet and Owen, as well as their big siblings Sawyer and Miles, preparing for Violet’s surgery. Joy today to share that all four kiddos are here today, playing and learning downstairs. A reality I couldn’t even imagine a year ago.
From Beth Simpson: “May everyone act from their heart this week. Blessed be.”
From David Wolfe: “A Hope – Let us pray for opposing beliefs will respected with understanding and acceptance”:
From Steve Herzog: “Joy and gratitude for every person working hard to get out the vote, including my wife AJ, Jennifer Ellis, and Emily Kerlin and many others who drove up to Michigan today to canvas”
From Jerry Carden and Tim Temple: ” Send positive energy and comfort to our dear friends JerryWray and Dirk Mol. Dirk has begun his end of life journey.”
Concern for Alice Engelbretson – she has been in the hospital this week due to complications from an outpatient procedure.
Concern for Mary Moore, retired UU minister and mother to UUCUC member Beth Carsely. Mary suffered a major stroke on Oct and has a long road to recovery.
Sunday, October 27
From Peggi White: A sorrow. Please keep in your hearts the family of Illinois State Police trooper Corey Thompsen, a former cross country and track teammate of both of my sons. He died in the line of duty on October 18 and will be laid to rest today.
From Brittney Shipley: This last week we learned my father’s health has become complicated once again. We are sorting the details, but he likely has esophageal cancer. He has a long road ahead of him and this is in the midst of major uncertainty with my stepmothers job and insurance. Please hold him in your heart and thoughts.
Sunday, October 20
From the Pitcel Family: Sorrow for the passing of Michelle’s Grandpa. Joy for the 90 years of his life and for the safe travel back to Michigan to attend the funeral.
From Pat McClard: Joy for singing with choir yesterday with the People’s chorus. Thank you MR for making us sound so good!
Sunday, October 13
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Sunday, October 6
From Jill Houser: I want to submit a concern to share Sunday concerning my home town of Asheville North Carolina.
There have been 160 confirmed deaths following this storm, with many missing.
The devastation has left many of us in shock, but the silver lining is that people are arriving with supplies and the willingness to risk their lives to dig out of the storm. Humanity is shining brightly and all but the essential has faded into the background for now.
Western North Carolina will never be the same. Please fill your heart with gratitude this morning and marvel at the impact of this storm; the power of nature and the selfless sacrifice that powers human beings to manifest goodness in their communities.
From Brittney Shipley: I’m grateful for the beautiful music that is always playing here every Sunday. Thank you, Juan, for your dedication to music and for exposing all of us to music we may otherwise not have known. Thank you to the worship team, choir, cruuners, and Pugs, for contributing to this joyful musical atmosphere.
From Courtney Krafczyk: Sorrow for my extended family who lost a baby on the day she was supposed to be born back in August. They are doing the best they can but are struggling too.
Sunday, September 29
From David Gross: An anniversary. Approximately this week fifty-five years ago I deposited with the University of Illinois a fully approved Ph.D. dissertation in the field of geology. Along the way I had an office on campus for fifty years. Few people have enjoyed a career as much as I did.
From Kyle Kroha: Sharing the joy of passing my national board exam for LCSW on the first try!
Sorrow that my car decided- without warning, despite conscientious maintenance- to overheat & destroy its radiator, cylinder hear & head gasket in just 5 minutes on Friday. (Second time for the head gasket!)
From Jordan James: Rev. Sally, Sue, and Margaret were so generous with their time, energy, and knowledge yesterday to create a beautiful space of community for those of us considering formally joining this community. THANK YOU!!!
Sunday, September 22
From Charles Walworth: I have survived my first four weeks of grad school and am now a green belt in judo.
From Pugs Paik: This past week, I was able to celebrate 25 years of mutual love and support because of a single choice that we made together all those years ago. Thank you, Beautiful, for the story we have made and continue to make. Thank you for making choices with me that continue to build this life we are journeying together.
From Jerry Carden: In memory of our dear friend Rod Kroemer. We had a beautiful celebration of his life yesterday with his husband Jim Wuersch.
From Anonymous: Sorrow for our child who is struggling and feels sad and alone. Sometimes hopeless.
Sunday, September 15
From Jenna Bayler: All the paperwork is in, our court date was a success, we have officially changed our names! My new name is Jenna Bayler (formerly Jenna Zeidler) and my spouse’s name is officially Katherine Elizabeth Bayler! Please update your personal address books!
From Sam Beshers: My stepmother Barbara Beshers is 86 today, and still fiercely independent.
From Cameron and Michelle Pitcel: Sorrow for Michelle’s Grandpa who is in intensive care, and for the passing of the step father of our “brother from another mother”.
Sunday, September 8
From David Gross: I am not in church today because I cannot find the courage to face the malfunctioning elevette. Yesterday evening, Claudia and I attended a most wonderful dinner and program in Fellowship Hall. But when I attempted to exit the church building and was encased in the elevette, that device refused to move. To be trapped in the UUCUC building is terrifying.
From Chris Hannauer: A joy for my lovely wife Jody Hanger this morning. I’m very proud of her; she knows why.
From Charles Walworth: I competed in my first Judo tournament yesterday. I fought seven matches and won two. I had a great time and I hope to do better at my next competition.
From Anonymous: My daughter just got out of the hospital after eight days and started school again Friday. We are thankful she is home and getting better but she is not out of the woods.
From Sam Beshers: For my brother Neil, who after six years in Urbana is on his journey back to his home in France.
From Anonymous: I lost my colleague and neighbor to cancer this week.
Sunday, September 1
From Kaitland Walworth: I got to visit with my friends and family in Chicago last week! It was wonderful to see them in person after 4 years apart.
From Charles Walworth: A joy for finishing my first week of grad school.
Sunday, August 25
from Karen Retzer: Mike’s mom (Karen’s mother-in-law) passed away on monday Aug 19. Please hold the family in your thoughts as they grieve.
From Jim Hannum: My brother-in-law, Gordon, is in the terminal phase of cancer and has just entered hospice. We hope hospice can help him find relief from the constant pain he now experiences. Please keep him and my sister in your thoughts.
From Katie Goslin: Please keep our Violet in your thoughts. She is okay, but had a febrile seizure Friday evening and had to be rushed to the ER via ambulance. Now home and just trying to keep the fever down. She is in good spirits and excited to be turning one in a few short weeks.
From Charles Walworth: I will be starting classes for my Masters of Public Health tomorrow!
From Katherine Knights: Joy that Alyssa’s surgery went very well and they are doing great in recovery.
From dust: 4 years after finishing my degree, I’ve finally found a job where I’ll make enough to live comfortable and take care of my family.
Sunday, August 18
Sunday, August 11
From Jenna and Katie Zeidler: On Friday, we said goodbye to our dog, Taco. He had an aggressive stomach cancer that had taken his appetite but not his love of basking in a sunbeam or barking at the mail carrier. Some of you might remember Taco from performances at coffee houses! He was truly special and will be infinitely missed.
From Alyssa Knights: This Tuesday, we had to say goodbye to our sweet Chihuahua Danny. Without the efforts of this congregation and Care Core, we would have never had some of the best 4 years together. Everyone he came across loved him and he made a lasting impact on so many people’s hearts. Thank you to everyone who was a part of his journey bringing him to us; we cherish the past 4 years fondly and am gutted we did not get any more with him. May sweet deer Danny boy, Dancer, or Daniel, rest easy.
From Cindy Loui: A sorrow, for Randy Locke whose father Randy Locke Sr. Died this week. Randy’s parents were frequent visitors here at UUCU. Please keep Randy & Trisha and their daughters in your thoughts.
From Tanja Hodges: My friend, Lindsey Sharp. received a breast cancer diagnosis recently. Please keep her, Nick, and their family in your thoughts during this difficult time. Lindsey is a fighter, but everyone can use a little help sometimes.
From Doug Jones: My aunt Judy is embarking on a new journey. Her right leg failed to support her and was amputated last Monday. She is in good spirits and making good progress.
Sunday, August 4
From Mary Strack: James A Gentry(Jim) passed away peacefully at the Amber Glen Memory Care Center on Thursday, July 25, 2024. His obituary will be in the News Gazette on Wednesday, July 31 with all the details.
From James Hannum: We mourn the death of Sonya Massey in Springfield, IL, shot by a Sheriff’s deputy responding to her 911 call. A tragic and unnecessary killing.
From Jerry Carden: We were shocked to learn that our dear friend Rod Kroemer died of a heart attack on Monday July 22nd. Rod & Jim attended here a few years ago and gardeners would know them as the owners of 5-Acre Daylily Farm south of Urbana. Please keep his husband Jim Wuersch in your thoughts.
From David Gross: This week our grand daughter Megan Gross received her college degree from the University of Central Florida, She earned that degree when only three years out of high school. Claudia and David are button bustin proud.
Sunday, July 28
Not Read Aloud
Sunday, July 21
From Jill Houser: Please hold my daughter, Rainer in your hearts today. She is battling through her 14th year and has hit a bumpy patch.
From the Millan Bell Family: We’re happy to be joining today after a lot of summer travels. And we’re overjoyed to share that we will *finally* be adopting our daughter Maria on July 31!
Sunday, July 14
From Claudia and David Gross: This week we had two grandchildren on campus for Illinois Summer Youth Music, ISYM. It was thrilling beyond words to see our eighth grade grand daughter perform in a band on the stage of the Great Hall of Krannert. The grandson was in an Oboe concert in the Music Building. This program is the University of Illinois at its very best.
From Priscilla Kron: I’m extremely happy to be here this morning after going into cardiac arrest last week. I trust my new pacemaker will allow me to be here for many years to come.
Sunday, July 7
From Alicia Buskirk: Alicia and Duncan will be celebrating their first wedding anniversary tomorrow!
From Elisabeth Larson: At the end of July I’ll be moving to Connecticut to join a birth center practice.
From Katriena Knights: Please hold in your thoughts my friend Sarah and her mother Rebecca, who is at Carle waiting to be transported to Peoria due to complications discovered after a mini-stroke and post-stroke seizure this weekend. They are waiting for a bed to open up, and to find out what next steps/treatment will be.
From Charles Walworth: My back is fully recovered from my bad muscle strain last week. Thank you to everyone who expressed their concern.
Sunday, June 30
From Anonymous: Being part of this church brings me joy. The love and kindness here feeds my soul. When I soar, it will because the members have been the wind on my wings.
From Autumn Haskins: My fiance Dalton (who is here with me today, yay!) and I are happy to announce that we are expecting our first baby due in February!
From Barbara Jauhola: In remembrance of my father, Leo Jauhola, on the 38th anniversary of
his death. Last Sunday was the 100th anniversary of his birth. And of my maternal grandmother, Lucy Will, who was born on this day 125 years ago.
From Wendy Graves: Congratulations to our daughter, Sara and her wife Joelle, who were married last Sunday in Charleston SC. It rained throughout the day but we were reminded that the tightest knot is tied with two wet ropes.
From Charles Walworth: This Thursday I badly strained my back, I am recovering well but am limited in my activities and ability to work.
From Haley Gibbs: Feeling joy that the article 2 revisions were passed at GA last week to include protecting all beings from exploitation!
From Marilyn Ryan: Happy Birthday to Deedy Marble! We celebrate you today and wish you a very happy year ahead!
Love, Marilyn
Joy From Katie Goslin: for those who have been with us through our journey with our almost 10 month old, Violet, and her surgery – I’m excited to share she is done wearing her post surgery helmet once the current one stops fitting and we don’t have to go back to Chicago until the one year anniversary of her surgery in November. We’ve been driving to Chicago every 2 to 3 weeks since she had the surgery at 2 months old. We are so thankful to be here and all of your support along the way.
Sunday, June 16
From Sam Beshers: Joy for UU ministers who are free and willing to speak on matters that might cost other religious leaders their pulpits
From Umeeta and Marilyn: 1) Umeeta had successful surgery to repair her Achilles tendon two weeks ago. We are SO grateful for all the support and care we have received; it makes the very long recovery so much more manageable! Thank you!
2) another joy: tomorrow, June 17, we’ll celebrate the anniversary of our 2006 commitment ceremony in this sanctuary—where we were embraced long before our union had legal recognition—and we’ll celebrate 25 years together!
From Annonymous: Learning to break generational curses. Learning to give myself the care all humans are inherently deserving of. It’s hard. For those who are dealing with this also, please know I see you. We are not alone.
From Jerry Carden: Tis a joy to experience the Pride month service from our happy place looking out over Lake Michigan. It’s wonderful to have grown our queer representation from the time Tim and I joined in the mid-nineties.
Sunday, June 9
From Autumn Haskins: Sad that I am missing service and all of your smiling faces today, but so grateful for a much needed vacation with some awesome new friends!
From Kimberlie Kranich: Prayers for my baby brother, Matty, who will undergo complicated spine surgery on Tuesday. May it all go well. Prayers for the Palestinians who are losing their lives daily. Prayers for the returned Israeli hostages. A joy for the contra dancing community in CU and the fun we make together.
From Claudia Gross: Tuesday, June 11 will be David and Claudia Gross’ 58th wedding anniversary.
From Kate McDowell: So happy to be home from six weeks of sabbatical travels in Europe. We live in such a beautiful green community of sweet hearted people.
Sunday, June 2
From Marsha Clinard: Charlie and I are in Chicago celebrating the graduation of granddaughter Shelby Boast from the university of Chicago with a degree in economics . Despite many hours of standing and sitting in heavy rain, we were full of joy and pride for our dear Shelby who finally made it on her 27th birthday.
From dust: I passed my probability class! This was the first grad level class I’ve taken in three years and the first math class I’ve taken in more than four. Wasn’t certain I’d be able to do it, but I’m so proud.
From Charles and Kaitland Walworth: We are happy and hopeful that our garden is growing abundantly and our new fruit and flowering trees are settling in well at their new home.
From Sam Beshers: Wishing my stepmother Barbara Beshers bon voyage as she heads to Oregon to visit an old friend
From Jennifer Ellis: that Walter McMahon was able to attend his granddaughter’s, Gwen Ellis, high school graduation ceremony on Tuesday. It was a big moment for her, and an important milestone for him to witness.
From Cecilia Guerrero: I am attending virtually today but felt compelled to write this message. I have not attended a church for a while. I grew up religious but became disillusioned with the teachings due to various reasons. I later became agnostic/atheist, but still found that I wanted a place to express a degree of spirituality. I am so thankful that I found this space, which is so inclusive, positive, and non judgemental. I am counting this UU as my joy and sorrow today; my joy because of how beautiful of a space it is, and my sorrow because I did not find it sooner! I would like to attend in person in the future.
From Anonymous: Dumbfounded by our child’s Type 1 Diagnosis. She was critically ill. Joyful she survived. She is sad but stronger than she realized and can check her blood sugar and administer insulin even though she was afraid of needles. Hope she feels happy again soon.
Sunday, May 26
From Sally Fritsche: Joe’s mother passed away on Thursday. Her visitation will be this Wednesday, noon, at Leek funeral home, with a burial to follow at Mt Hope. Your prayers and condolences are welcome.
From Sam Beshers: We got married 38 years ago on May 24. The day started with basketball, then a volleyball game, and eventually the ceremony.
From Autumn Haskins: Thinking of Cate today as she recovers from a nasty sickness. I miss her!!
From Tim and Jerry: Hold Brian Franklin and his family in your hearts. His mother passed away unexpectedly about a day ago. Brian was a past administrator for UUCUC.
Christine Cahill: My daughter, Sadie and son-in-law Andy, who were married in 2019 are finally taking their long awaited honeymoon to northern Italy.
From Robert Hartman: Willa is having major surgery on Wed 5/29 – Please hold her in your prayers.
From Joe O: My mother passed away peacefully this past Thursday. She lived 90 wonderful years. Survived by her daughter Antoinette, sons Patrick and Joe. Proceeded in death was her son Gabe.
Kathy and Leon Frizzell: Proud to attend son Brian’s last child’s high school graduation Thursday evening! But, Dean is going to OSU – what’s an Illini to do?
Sunday, May 19
From Katie Goslin: We learned a few weeks ago one of Sawyers first preschool friends unexpectedly passed away. She was five. My heart aches for her family and siblings. I see myself in them and cannot fathom their pain. Please keep this little girl and her family in your thoughts and prayers.
From Alisa Fritsche: It’s my joy to wish Rev. Sally a very happy birthday! (from her mom)
From Lindsay Sharp: My Aunt Judy had two major strokes this week. She’s awake and alert now, but has a long road ahead of her. Please send love her way.
From Anonymous: This coming Wednesday May 22nd will be the 20th anniversary of the day I got married to the person I wanted to spend my life with. Each year, this used to be a day I looked forward to with great joy. At the moment, it’s approach is a time of grieving. Someday in the future, I hope it may again feel like a day of celebration.
From LaRene Anderson: Very happy to be back at my UU home after 10 years away. It’s good to be home.
From Dr. Elisabeth Larson: So excited to share that I finished my midwifery Doctorate! Now to find my first job!
From Jerry Carden: As the team lead of our Building and grounds team, I want to recognize the people that put the most effort into our recent air conditioning installment – especially Tim Voelker and Andy Robinson, and the rest of the BAGAT Team. And those that contributed to this special project.
From Dar: I am now officially a wise older woman! Joined the group and loved it! Amazing and heartwarming camaraderie. Know that this is an unsolicited comment.
Sunday, May 12
From the Millan Bell family: We have accepted a new foster care placement. A sibling group of 4 came into care in late March. All siblings are currently split up. DCFS has been unable to find a home that can take all 4 and so looked for families who can take 2 and 2. Sariya and Devon will be moving in with us on May 20. We are saddened that a home for all 4 hasn’t been found, but we are glad that at least these 2 will get to live together and we’re looking forward to having them join our family for however long they need.
Sunday, May 5
From Anthony Brienza: Very grateful for all the help with the auction dinner on Friday afternoon and Saturday. It would not have been possible with out your contributions.
From Sam Beshers and Lynn Wiley: Joy for our daughter Caroline graduating from medical school and her induction into the medical humanist honors society.
From Kathy Frizzell: Overjoys to celebrate air conditioning in the sanctuary. Thanks to all who made this happen. Cool!
From Dr. Beth Simpson: I passed my cleanse!
From Jerry and Tim Carden – Temple: Happy Cinco de Mayo birthday to Barbara Jauhola.
Sunday, April 28
From Gail Heuting: I have been at Carle Hospital since having a road accident on Tuesday. I am improving and would love visitors.(Rm 9121)
From Jerry Carden: We are going to get to keep the little Kousa dogwood in the south entry court. I finally found a person with a tree mover. It should happen next week!
From Jocelyn Karsk: Great Joy at having gathered yesterday with so many of our church leaders at the Council of Shared Leadership retreat. Great conversations and collaborations were had!
A sorrow- I grew up in Nebraska and many areas of Nebraska and Iowa were devastated by tornadoes on Friday. Many were impacted and there is much to clean up.
From Maureen Warren: A joy: for all the students protesting the genocide in Gaza. They are an inspiration.
From Autumn and Jade Mellen: Autumns grandmother had another fall a few days ago, broke some of her ribs, and is back in the hospital. Prayers, thoughts, and well wishes would be very appreciated.
From Sam Beshers: For the beautiful singing and harmony on We Rise
From Emily McKown: I was accepted to a summer internship in Minneapolis this summer for my Clinical practicing practicing pastoral care and music therapy in a nursing home. So excited to be able to integrate music into my ministry!
From Marsha Clinard: A joy to be singing with the university oratorio society this afternoon at 3pm in the Great Hall. 250 singers and 100 orchestra members will be performing the glorious Beethoven 9th. I hope we can have as many in the audience as will be on stage. It will be wonderful
From Brittney Shipley: This week my father’s prostate biopsy came back positive for cancer. His doctors are worried it has metastasized. We have a long, difficult journey ahead of us.
Sunday, April 21
From Jenny Hunt: Many of you knew Florence’s mother Harriet McNeill. It is with sadness that I let you know that Harriet flew free Monday afternoon. From reports it was peaceful and exactly how she would have choreographed it. Sending condolences to Florence and her family.
From Charles Walworth: An old friend who I haven’t seen in years is in town, I will see him later today.
Sunday, April 14
From David Gross: I have long been an advocate for visiting other UU churches. The UU Church of Bloomington, IN has just vaulted to the top of my list. Their candidate to serve as their next senior minister is the Rev. Susan Frederick-Gray, the former national President of the UUA. A wonderful choice for that church.
From Charles Walworth: A joy for the beautiful weather this weekend and the simple pleasures of being alive.
From Autumn and Jade Mellen: The funeral services for Autumns grandfather was yesterday, and we are thankful that we were able to gather with family in peace on such a beautiful day to celebrate the life of a very loved man.
From Maureen Warren: Delighted to see our friend and fellow UUCUC member Nick Cragoe’s artwork at Orpheum as part of the Boneyard Arts Festival. Go Nick!
From Tanja Hodges: Just so grateful for the chance to bring beautiful music to the world with my friends at the Chorale concert yesterday. It was a treat!
From Chanda Hott: Sorrows. For my aunt, who is making some difficult decisions regarding her cancer treatment. For my cousin, who is struggling with health issues. For my mom, who recently has had some heart-related concerns.
From Brittney Shipley: Remembering Carly Benjamin, whose birthday was a few days ago. 6 months without her and we miss her.
From Amanda Jane Pellett: I started physical therapy in the pool and found nail polish that looks great with my suit. Some of the small things bring the most joy!
From Katie Madigan: My new job next year as the Principal of Urbana Early Childhood School. This role has been a dream of mine for 10 years. As a women I was always taught to be humble about my accomplishments, but I want to celebrate this dream come true.
From David Wolf: Played a game with my grandson on his 19th birthday.
From Jerry Frye: Beautiful service celebrating the life of Daniel Beshers. Father of Sam Beshers. His life was indeed incredible.
From Pene Beckett: My grandson Garrett, 32 yrs old is in the hospital in San Antonio TX. He is in ICU. His thyroid is in a storm and affects his heart. Please hold him in your thoughts and prayers.
From Melissa and Theo: A joy that we played hookie to have a special day together and with many others, watching the solar eclipse in totality at a state park 90 miles south. It was awesome!
Sunday, April 7
From Cathy Ritchie: My sincere thanks to Carle Hospital for the excellent care I received during my recent unexpected gallbladder surgery. The nursing and food—-yes, the food—-were both outstanding, and I’m very grateful.
From Autumn Haskins: Joy: that our new 10 week old black kitten, Maple, is settling well in our home!
From Sally Babbitt: I am very happy and joyful to comment upon the help, joy and commitment that the congregation and especially the care core has lavished upon me. I am happy to report that the immunotherapy I have been receiving has controlled to some small extent the metastatic kidney cancer with which I am living. Thank you to all who send greetings. It makes me very happy and joyful to receive your kind words! Hugs to you all and happy Spring.
From Mia: I got to stay with my grandma this weekend.
From Theo: I fractured my wrist. I can’t play sports for 4-6 weeks.
From Beth Simpson: I’m excited to see the eclipse! Yeah! Woo!
From Nick Cragoe: I feel an incredible sorrow for the children of Palestine. I don’t know how to carry it.
From Annonymous: Thank you to Pat Nolan and everyone who makes our Little Food Pantry possible.
From Annonymous: I am grateful for all who gave time to our SprUUce up on Saturday.
From Gail C. : My loud, noisy downstairs neighbor moved out yesterday!
From Jenn Bartlett: Joy: All the big hearted people in this community and in my life. Sorrow: My brother showed up at an airport 2 weeks ago and is gone again. We don’t know where. I miss him and love him. His name is Chris. He too has a big heart.
Sunday, March 31
From Sam Beshers: Lynn Wiley and Sam Beshers are moving! To Urbana, in the summer sometime.New beginnings and renewal….
From Brittney Shipley: This week we lost a long-time family friend, Kerry Mason. His last days were spent in comfort, end-of-life care, surrounded by loved ones. For that we are grateful. My great grandfather, fell this week and is in bad condition. This comes after a very recent diagnosis of metastatic prostate cancer. Please keep him in your thoughts.
Sunday, March 24
From Autumn and Jade Mellen: Autumn’s grandfather passed this last week. Although he is no longer in pain he will be dearly missed.
From Mimi Ormerod: Keeping my Aunt Ana close in my heart as she deals with health issues.
From Doug Jones: My Aunt Judy’s ankle has healed to the point it can bear weight! It has been a long 102 days since she fell. She is excited to start therapy to learn to walk again with the goal of returning to her home in 30 to 60 days. She is blessed with many friends and the love of her First Christian Church of Paducah family. Over many years, her ankle became pronated (turned out nearly 90 degrees). Her surgery not only repaired the break, it repaired the pronation. There is hope that she will be able to walk better than she has in over a decade!
From Maureen Warren: Maureen Warren and Allison Hansen celebrated 18 fabulous years of marriage last week.
From Brittney Shipley: This month marks 5 years since my stroke in 2019, and 4 years since my last blood clot. This is the longest I have gone in my adult life without a blood clot. I’m grateful for modern medicine and the amazing medical team that has saved my life several times. I am also grateful for the community that supported me and continues to. Love to you all!
Sunday, March 17
From Sam Beshers and Lynn Wiley: Our daughter Caroline will be doing her residency in Family Medicine at UI Chicago, her first choice. She is very happy.
From Beth Stafford: My niece and I are celebrating the fact that she just legally changed her last name to bury the memory of an emotionally abusive father. She is now Nick P. Stafford.
From Matthew Krafczyk: Baby Ada was born Friday at 6:26 pm! She was 6lbs 3oz and 19in long. Mother and baby are happy and healthy, and we’re recovering and adjusting today. We can’t wait to introduce her to everyone!
From Charles Walworth: Friday was my birthday, I met up with Kaitland for lunch and then made a lovely dinner for us at home. We’ll be celebrating with our friends and family this afternoon.
From Rev. Beth: I’m filled with joy and gratitude for this community and all the ways, like this beautiful service, that we create ministry together.
From Umeeta Sadrangani: Umeeta’s mother came home from rehab on Friday, more than two months after she fell and broke her clavicle. Umeeta was glad to be in Connecticut to help her during this big transition.
From Christine Cahill: It was an absolute joy to be able to travel to Denver to see our daughter Colleen, son-in-law Tony and grandchildren Jack and Cici. Husband Michael’s skiing was cut short by the big storm. We got back to Denver and were able to provide childcare when daycare was canceled.
From Amanda Jane Pellett: I miss my best friend Rachel who would have celebrated her birthday on March 15th.
From Kathleen Robbins: Please keep the people of Haiti in your heart and prayers as they go through this most difficult time.
From Theo: On the plane she didn’t cry when she couldn’t sit next to the window.
From Beth Simpson: I drive around in a parking lot.
From Kat: A joy that I finally have a new job after months of hunting that pays more and less physically demanding. And a sorrow that this means I’m soon leaving my coworkers, who I have come to see as close friends. It’s bittersweet but they support me through this life change and no matter what I’ll treasure the friendship we’ve had.
From Brittney Shipley: Happy Birthday to my grandma, who would be 76 if she was still with us. She is greatly missed and the memories of her continue to teach and inspire those who were lucky enough. to know and love her.
From Morgan Frush: Our dear friend Evan took his life yesterday.
From Elisabeth L.: Caught baby #30!
Sunday, March 10
From Kristin LeSueur: A sorrow for the soul of Frank Gerlits. May he dance eternally with Jerry Garcia and the great jam band in the sky.
Sunday, March 3
From Chanda Hott: I have been a member of UUCUC for over a month now. I am grateful to have found a community in which I feel safe, embraced and appreciated. This has been the missing piece in my life
From Haley Gibbs: Continuing to feel sorrow for the people of Palestine. Proud of the CU community for showing up in support of a ceasefire yesterday. 500 of us marched the streets of Champaign for miles to shut it down for Palestine.
From Brittney Shipley: I’m grateful for the love I have received from this community, and the connections I will continue to make. Thank you for being so open and welcoming!
From Brandy Barter-Storm: Joy: Yesterday I finished my 13th graduate class for my PhD program. Phew! 4 more classes to go, then an internship, exams, and finally the dissertation. I’m starting to see the light. 🙂
Sunday, February 25
From Cindy Loui: Former church Angela Thomas died last week in Iowa from complications of MS with her family nearby. She had moved to Iowa to be close to her mother as her disease progressed. There will be a private family service at a later date. Contact Cindy if you would like contact information for her mother Connie or son Liam.
From Charles and Kaitland Walworth: A mixture of joys and sorrows this morning. Charles came down with Covid Tuesday evening and after several days of chills and muscle aches is feeling better. Kaitland is dealing with migraines and sinus pressure but is still somehow testing negative. We were very sad to miss Game Night on Friday and hope to both be fully recovered soon.
From Sandy Hannum: We are mourning the loss of Bob Foote who died suddenly this week. He is Karen Retzer’s brother. He and his wife Cheryl were just about to join the church when he went into the hospital with pneumonia. He was already involved with the men’s group and with playing trumpet with fellow UUs. Please keep Cheryl, Karen and Mike in your hearts during this difficult time.
From Jim and Sandy Hannum: We are wishing Walt McMahon well as he begins treatment for an aggressive cancer in his lungs. The treatment is likely to be very difficult, and we will be keeping him in our hearts and hoping for a good outcome. Sandy and Jim
From Haley Gibbs: Joyful that I am working to launch a chapter of UU Animal Ministries here & sorrow that I can’t be with you all in person today after a Covid exposure!!
From Debbie Karplus: My daughter, Sari Karplus, has authored her latest children’s book, “Squirrels in Antarctica”. I am so proud of her!!!!
Sunday, February 18
From Dave:
Hah!! Made it to 70!! If you had the over – you cashed!!
Some thoughts on aging:
1. You can’t kill a man that was born to be hung.
2. No one wants to live to be 100 – except the guy that’s 99.
3. Old Irish blessing: “May you live so long that that the mere sight of you frightens small children & ex lovers”
From Jenny Ellis: I’m sorry to relay that Walt McMahon is back in the hospital as of last Sunday, Feb 11. He is eager to come back to us, but having a hard time of it. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers.
From Charles and Kaitland Walworth: We have multiple joys to share today. Tomorrow Kaitland will be starting her new job working for the University Foundation. This past week Charles was accepted into a Masters of Public Health program. Our dog Sadie turns three years old this Tuesday, we will be celebrating her this afternoon.
From Katie Goslin: I’ve wanted to participate in a coffeehouse since I started remotely tuning into services in 2020… was thrilled to get the opportunity last night. Thankful for a safe, supportive space where people of all ages and abilities and experience can give it a go! So much fun!
From Lindey Sharp: Sending healing thoughts to Tanja Hodges as she fights a COVID infection. May her recovery be quick and complete.
From Kate McDowell: My husband Ben is cancer free, and I get to meet skating star Johnny Weir at a library conference in October!
From Autumn and Jade Mellen: After almost a month and a half Autumns Grandmother is finally out of the hospital! She’s working on healing full time at home with family.
From Melissa: A joy that my 8 year old can bring love, joy, and energy to dear friends going through a hard time. And a joy that Ben is back safely from his annual week long service project to Mississippi with teenagers.
From Jerry Frye: Another senseless loss of life to gun violence here in CU. Brandon Hardway was a classmate of our son and our daughter knew him. He will be missed by so many. His wife, family, co-workers and friends.
From Elisabeth Larson: After 4 weeks I am finally feeling like myself and can return to my mid-wifery work.
From Dani Nutting: My parents adopted a cat this past week!! This comes as a huge surprise to our family after pets have been hard no for my dad since our family dog passed when I was a toddler – “It’s too hard when they pass”…that was his argument. After the difficult loss of my grandpa (dad’s dad) in November, Dad’s heart is opening in curious new ways.
Sunday, February 11
From David and Claudia Gross: Sorry to miss the church service today, but we are today on the Rotterdam of Holland America in the middle of the Panama Canal and having a great time.
From Lindsey Sharp: Remembering DJ Sheppard who died three years ago Friday. He wasn’t a member of this church but he was Ruth and Donnie’s father and my husband and I think he would have loved it here. We miss him every day and it feels good to hear his name spoken aloud. Anyway, seriously, don’t be too shy to get a colonoscopy.
From Kim Kranich: So glad that tonight the church begins a discussion with parents about parents as sexuality educators for their children. This kind of parental support is so needed. There is still time to join us. Sunday’s, including today, from 4pm until 5:39pm..And thanks to all of the OWL and REE teachers! What you do is a blessing.
From Nick Cragoe: My grandmother Pat passed away late Thursday at 94. She left a complicated legacy, but she helped kindle my interest in the art that is a huge part of my life, helped me to better understand myself, and the world is a little quieter without her in it.
Sunday, February 4
From Autumn Haskins: Grateful to have closed on our first house this past Tuesday! We’ve spent all week painting and preparing to move tomorrow! We are so excited and joyful to make new memories in our own space. A big thanks to everyone who dropped boxes off at the church as well.
From Jim Hannum: Safe travels to UU women (Sandy, Peggy, Karen, Cindy, and Ursula) traveling home today from Lansing, Michigan, after visiting Gabi Meyer, a former member of this church.
From Katie Goslin: Joy for a new, exciting job!!
Sunday, January 28
From Sam Beshers: My mother, Maxine Beshers, was born on this day (January 28) in 1924.
From Elisabeth Larson: A joy from a sorrow– last week I was diagnosed with bilateral pneumonia. I’m coming to more deeply understand the concept of Capital R- Rest, despite my natural inclinations.
I have been deeply held by this community, including movie nights, rainy soup drop offs, and check-ins. I especially want to thank Alicia Buskirk and Duncan Pattengill, without whom I wouldn’t be here. Both because Alicia sat with me in the emergency department, and that they’re my ride.
I’ll be convalescing awhile longer but here’s to brighter days.
From Jenny Ellis: My father, Walter McMahon, has been experiencing some difficult health hurdles. After spending Jan 16-20 in the hospital due to extremely low sodium levels, we were thrilled to get him home and getting better there. But then just three days later, he had to be rushed back to the hospital by ambulance. We are hopeful he will be released soon. It’s been a tough road, and I would so appreciate you keeping him in your thoughts.
From Alicia Buskirk: Looking forward to starting a job that doesn’t require a one hour commute!
From Nicole Mitchell: Yesterday I attended the program for those looking to become members but was forced to leave early due to illness. I got hit rather rapidly with a fever and chills and was down all day.
Today I am considerably improved (so definitely NOT covid) and grateful for the swift recovery time.
I look forward to joining you all next week when I’m no longer contagious and can start attending UUCUC as a bonafide member.
From Pat DeWalt: Joe and I send a big thank you to everyone who brought us meals following my foot surgery. You kept us fed and feeling connected. We are so grateful.
From Chris Hannauer: For the untimely passing of my cousin David Hannauer. His was a troubled life and though I never really had a relationship with him it saddens me to know that this connection to my family history is no more.
From Autumn and Jade Mellen: It is Autumn’s Grandparents’ 63rd wedding anniversary today. Her grandmother is still in the hospital healing apart from her spouse.
From Curtis Donelson: Joyful for my recent acceptance to the law school at UIUC. And beginning this new phase in the fight for social justice.
From Aspen Puckett: I am watching from home, I’m curious about joining your church, I’m 25, I have never been religious but I’m going through something that is changing my mind. My sorrow is a big one that will never go away. My little brother was recently killed, my family just celebrated his 21st birthday, the first one without him.
But my joy is that my first nephew was just born days after my brothers birthday.
From Angie Urban: Our olden don, Demitrius, embarks on his first tour as part of the St. Olaf Choir. We wish him well as he travels across the southeast of the country.
From Charles Walworth: After a busy week and expensive car repairs, I am happy to report that my first dentist appointment in four year showed no cavities.
From Dar: After too many years of soul-searching, Dan and I joyously become members yesterday. Cheers!
From Maureen: For the people of Palestine
From Kim Kranich: We are starting our 2nd round of comprehensive sex ed. for 4th and 5th graders tonight. Thank to all the teachers – current and past.
From Jody Hanger: For our friends AJ and Steve Herzog who are generous, giving and so dear to us.
Sunday, January 21
From Pat McClard: Having fun dating again!
From Doug Jones: My Aunt Judy is slowly recovering from a broken ankle.
From Beth S.: Martin L. King was killed for his and others work, 20 years a memorial, was put on a federal holiday and now reparations as a UU.
From Christine Cahill: Please hold my college roommate Karen and her husband Tim in your thoughts and prayers. Tim has stage 4 melanoma and heart complications from the chemotherapy.
From Amanda Jane Pellett: I move into my new apartment tomorrow!
From Jerry and Tim Carden-Temple: Remembrance of our long time auctioneer, Dan Enny, who led our auctions for many years.
From Haley: Tomorrow marks 2 months of freedom from a cruel animal testing lab for my sweet new dog, Virginia.
From Autumn Haskins: Grateful to have graduated with summa cum laude from Indiana Wesleyan University with a Bachelors in Communications!!
From Mick McEnroe: One year ago yesterday, I wasn’t sure I was ready to be responsible for someone else’s well-being. Then I met two little kittens. I instantly fell in love with them, and a few days later, they came to live with me. I’m so glad.
From Jade and Autumn Mellen: Autumns Grandma had a fall at the beginning of the year and she has been in the hospital for almost three weeks now. Please pray for continued healing
From James Hannum: Thinking of our long-time friend, Joe, whose memorial service was yesterday. He was a kind and generous man.
From Sam Beshers: Joy for our cats (who are not here)
From Maureen Warren: In sorrow for the people of Palestine.
From Kelly Skinner: My brother-in-law is in the hospital. He is diabetic and has been diagnosed with conjunctive heart disease. He has a long journey ahead of him.
From Cate Calac: Happy Birthday to my daughter Eva!
Sunday, January 14
From SJ Southwick: Please remember Sally whose sister recently died unexpectedly.
From Rita Dagys: My fiance Vyt ( Veet) and I got married dec 28 at River Road UU church In Bethesda. We were In Urbana yesterday looking to Buy a home this spring. We are looking forward to becoming a part of the Joy that is UUCUC.
From Umeeta S.: A joy: my mother celebrated her 89th birthday on Wednesday.
The sorrow: my mother had a bad fall last Monday while visiting my father in the hospital and has been in the hospital since; she will have to continue her recovery in rehab . (My father is somewhat better and was able to go home this week.) My brother and sister-in-law have been caring for them—they even brought cake to the hospital on Wednesday. The past ten days have been rough. Please keep all of them in your thoughts. Thank you!
From Jim Hannum: Our daughter, Christy, and her wife just returned from Ecuador. Our hope is that Ecuador, which is full of drug and violence, can become peaceful.
From Mike R.: My father has lost his eye sight. He is my mentor and best friend.
From Anonymous: Thinking about our friends whose child is starting week 5 in the hospital. Their kiddo is dear to us and best friends with our kiddo. It’s been hard. I hope they can feel our love.
From Beth S.: With great sorrow at the passing of Dave King.
Sunday, January 7th
From Sam Beshers: Joy for the long life of my father, Daniel Beshers, and sorrow that it came
to its close on January 4. Joy that his wife Barbara is still with us.
From Peggy Patten and Todd Kinney: We are thinking of our friend and UU member Brigitte Pieke who took a serious fall a few weeks ago and is recovering at home with the help of therapy. Cards and well wishes would be appreciated.
From Jerry Carden: I am thankful for a successful foot surgery on Jan 2nd, and especially thankful for my husband Tim and his care-giving while I am non-weight bearing. He is a saint!
From Katie Goslin: Joy to be in person for first time since having twins! Two older kids are in nursery and the twins will eventually join us, too, once we exit cold and flu season.
From Umeeta S.: Joy that my parents, who are 88, spent two heartwarming weeks with Marilyn and me at the end of December. Concern for my father, who is in the hospital back home in Connecticut; he has breathing problems caused by his weak heart. Please keep him and my mother in your thoughts
From Chris Hannauer: For the treasure trove of pictures and documents and tiny antique liquor bottles from my mother’s side of the family that we discovered last night. So many things I would ask if I could.
From Tanja Hodges: Bobbie Ruby’s husband suffered a heart attack this week. Please reach out to her if you get the chance as they deal with his recovery.
From Beth S.: This year will see me extend my hand and flex it. So be it!
From Jody Hanger: For a former co-worker, Kim, who was recently diagnosed with liver cancer. She is 46 and has three kiddos.
Sunday, December 31
From Kate McDowell:
Sharing a sorrow at holiday time:
For families that neglect children
And all the pain and scars they cause, inside and out
And all the joy they miss when children recover and move on in life without them
And all the people who don’t believe neglected children just because they survived and learned
To hide the scars, outside and in.
Sunday, December 24
From Jerry Carden: A candle of joy that Jonny Beckett and I were able to recruit some of our uu horn band folks. We will play for 20 minutes prior to the 5 pm Christmas Eve service. We are an intergenerational group having fun putting together some holiday tunes. Come early to hear us.
From Mary Dugan: My granddaughter who has cystic fibrosis came home from the hospital Thursday
From Jim and Sandy Hannum: A Joy! This is our 51st wedding anniversary!
From Anonymous: Sorrow for the boy who is detained after an offense he committed last Sunday. Pray for him.
From Charles Walworth: Kaitland and I will not be going to my mother’s tomorrow.
From Beth S.: For all my family spread around the country. I love you!
Sunday, December 17
From Haley Gibbs: This year I decided to go back to school at 28 years old and I’m grateful to share I have just completed my first semester of college with a 4.0 GPA
From Ben Leff: Today would have been Justine Schoeplein’s 83rd birthday. Justine was a member of this church, Melissa Schoeplein’s mother, and my grandma.
From Beatriz Clabey: My sorrow is I had a fever yesterday.
From Sam Beshers: Concern for Barbara, who is worried about her health and about her future
From Elisabeth Larson: I have less than 20 weeks left until I graduate as a nurse – midwife!
From Jocelyn Karsk: Great joy celebrating my sister this fall – 1st with her wedding in September. 2nd earlier this week attending the adoption of her 2 foster children.
From Janet Revell Barrett: I mourn the sudden passing of my dear brother, Robert Revell, who lost his life in an auto accident in Omaha on December 13. My daughter Paige and I attended his memorial service this week, which was a fitting celebration of his life complete with his son and grandsons singing and playing the piano.
Sunday, December 10
From Julie Laut: Marc, Jules, Celia, and I are thrilled that my parents will be moving into their new home in Urbana on Thursday. Hooray!
From Cate Calac: The doctors are fairly certain that the lump in my daughter’s breast is just a very dense but healthy lump of breast tissue. We will know for certain tomorrow.
From Maureen Warren: Grieving the ongoing murder of thousands of Palestinians in the name of settler colonialism.